A letter to all the single men who live alone in India
Dear Men Who Live Alone,
How are you? I pray to God that you are fine.
Are you in a relationship? Are you seeing someone? Are you hoping to see someone?
If you are looking at either marriage or live in at some point in life, then here are some important points to THINK ABOUT.
1. These days, the girls and their parents look for making big bucks in a short period of time. So, they look for men who stay away from their family.
2. Though single men who live away from their family are a good idea, a better idea for such girls and their parents are men who have been recently divorced. Such men are a good catch because they are emotionally vulnerable and are feeling upset and angry.
3. These girls and women latch on to such men as damsels in distress. Nothing makes a man feel more powerful than a woman who asks him for help.
4. Since the family is not around, the women are able to ensnare the guy through their charms. All this while the girls pretend that they have not told their parents about this. However, most of the times, it is a joint operation between the girl and her parents. Many parents use their daughters to ensnare guys to extract money from them and pay off their loans.
5. Now the girl leads the guy to ask her to move into his house. Since she is a damsel in distress, she does not have the money to pay the rent or does not have a great job, the guy takes pity on her and asks her to move in.
6. Since he has a business of his own, the girl shows interest in his business. The guy thinking that he has finally found a partner in every sense of the word, agrees and asks her to help him out.
7. She tells the guy that she has lied to her parents that she is living in a rented flat. The parents come to see the flat in the absence of the guy. This exercise is to understand the paying power of the guy.
8. They start living in together. In the live-in period the girl tolerates everything about the guy. His short temper, his unkempt clothes, the way he speaks and the way he sleeps.
9. She gains his confidence and starts siphoning off money from his account into hers through various pretexts.
10. After nine months or so, the parents 'accidentally' discover that their daughter has been living in with this person and decide to meet the parents of the guy to formalize the relationship. So far, the girl has tolerated everything. The guy, the family and everything else. Now, the parents of the guy who live in another city are naturally hoping that their son can have a happy married life and they agree.
11. The girl demands jewelry from the guy which the guy asks his parents to buy.
12. The marriage ceremony is simple and the girl has achieved what she wanted.
13. From the next day of the marriage, she starts misbehaving with the family. She starts having problems with the guy, his family.
14. The old parents are further tortured by this girl who now finds faults in everything and creates fights for all the petty reasons.
15. Soon, she moves out to her parents and still keeps asking the guy for money since she says that 'she left her job' because of him. The guy keeps giving her the money.
16. After a while, the 'aggrieved' parents of the girl visit the guys parents and say that the girl cannot live with the guy. The interesting bit is that the girl lived in with the guy for 9 months and now says the guy is aggressive etc.
17. They file a dowry and domestic violence case to harass the family and extract money. They even name the family members who have never lived with the guy.
18. The police starts calling and all the hell breaks loose.
This is how the domestic violence and dowry laws work in India. Women extract money from their husband and in-laws. The best part is such women marry and divorce umpteen times and there is no record of their exploits. They can change the city, they can change the place and men tend to fall prey to their charms.
SO MEN PLEASE DO NOT LET A WOMAN LIVE IN WITH YOU UNLESS YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY SURE. ENSURE THAT YOU INVESTIGATE WELL ABOUT THE BACK GROUND OF THE PERSON BEFORE YOU TRUST THEM.
LOVE IS BLIND AND SO IS THE LAW WHICH CONSIDERS WOMAN AS THE VICTIM ALWAYS. THE WOMEN WHO ACTUALLY SUFFER DON'T GET AS MUCH SOLACE AS THE WOMEN WHO EARN MONEY THROUGH THIS ENTIRE OPERATION. THERE ARE WOMEN WHO ARE MAKING MONEY BY SIMPLY MARRYING AND FILING DOWRY CASES.
BE CAREFUL! VERY CAREFUL!